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If your partner refuses to move forward and work on their level of respect for you, it might be a good idea to let the relationship run its course. You deserve to have a partner who will respect you, the choices that you make, and the person that you are. Most adult relationships do! However, if you find that your partner is constantly crossing your boundaries when it comes to the things that you would prefer not to happen, then this is a big sign that your partner is treating your poorly.
Your boundaries should be firm, and your partner should always respect them. A sign that your partner is treating you poorly is their inability to meet your needs, whether those needs be physical or emotional. Your partner may be very sweet, but your sex life could be extremely lacking. Your partner might be entirely focused on themselves in either area, which leaves you without the type of emotional or physical support that you need from them. Whatever the reason, making sure your partner knows a relationship is a two-way street may be the way to get this type of behavior to turn itself around.
Sometimes, life gets in the way and we stop putting our best foot forward in our relationships. It happens! If not, you can always find someone who will treat you the way you deserve. Maybe they're in between datefriends, or they're in town and need a place to crash, even though they haven't answered your texts in months.
If you feel like they're not exactly using you , but they're only a strong presence in your life when they don't really have anything else going on, it's reasonable to start to wonder if you need them in your life at all.
You're stoked to introduce your inner circle to your new girlfriend, but they say you're just "going through a phase. Maybe you've been best friends since you were kids, so they say they're really used to your old pronouns and name. But if they use your identity to diminish or belittle you, or make zero effort to understand you, they are definitely not a person you need in your life.
Sure, " no one can make you feel inferior without your consent ," but also It's one thing if they got a promotion and you're so happy for them but it reminds you that you're not quite where you want to be yet.
It's completely another situation when your pal celebrates themself by putting you down, constantly implying or even directly saying that they're the smartest and most successful person in the room. Sure enough, it can be painful, but it's alright to shrug your shoulders and say, "We had a beautiful connection once, and I'm grateful for it: but now we're just in really different places.
It doesn't make you a bad person — it's just about bringing your full self to the table each day, and sometimes our full selves just don't match with old friends anymore. Sure, you might text them or see them often enough, but they only seem to be fully present with you when they need something. Whether it's venting about the ex they saw over the weekend, you always seem to be there for them, while they're always be busy when you need help processing a work crisis of your own.
You deserve more reciprocity than that. If you have that buddy who guilt trips you for asserting your boundaries or communicating your needs, these symptoms of a bad friendship are likely to pop up everywhere. If "guilt trip" isn't on your list of dream destinations, saying goodbye is more than acceptable. You want to be able to tell your best friend about that fight you and your partner had, including the parts where you kind of messed up.
You certainly expect those conversations to remain private, because they promised you it would. But when you hear from the cousin of a friend of your bestie's roommate that you're being a total jerk in your relationship, you'll definitely be reevaluating what to share with them in the future if you two have a future at all. When you're having an anxiety attack in the club and your so-called friend tells you to suck it up because you're ruining everyone's night, it's definitely time to go.
This article was originally published on Sep.
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